Should I be worried that my wife is into wearing thigh high boots and mini skirts when she goes out lately?

she is a very young looking 35

Ummmm- Yes…

i she use to do it befoe then its ok…………. but if its recently then i would say she wants some attention from u … neither way i u belive and and have confidence in ur wive then its nothing wory about …………. if u cant still get settled with it . then u should talk to her

Then yes you should talk to her about it…that is just my opinion.

ty, I will figure something out

No, maybe she wants to feel sexy and fun there is nothing wrong with that right..I mean she’s ur. Wife and at the end of the night ur the man she loves and comes home too.. Sometimes women like to look and feel sexy maybe when she goes out again tell her, baby u look really sexy let’s do something tonight lol ya know ;)

lol, true, just with an outfit like that ya sometimes worry they are out hunting, and I am sure gettin hit on. but I see your point, thanks!

I would definitely talk to her. I have to say that gives a bad impression. Someone could mistake her for who she really is. You should be worried and you should talk to her. But if you know she is loyal to you and she loves you with all her heart and you trust her then I wouldn’t worry as much.

understood

Well I just think is better that you talk to her and let her know how her dressing is making you feel, but also how her dressing is not very appropriate. Meaby she wants to look younger and hotter, that can happen, with decent looking clothes as well, so let her know this too. You can meaby offer her to shop a little so she can see she can be sexy, young looking, and appropriate in everday clothes?

maybe, If i were you and i wasnt ok with her going out like that ,i would tell her..its also a little dangerous if she goes alone at night…etc.. she could get into trouble..so i would just tell her what you think about her clothes.

Wow, uh yea, if she’s going out with friends, I’d deffinately be skeptical, but of course you have to know what kind f friends they are. Somebody once told me “ tell ke who your friends are and I’ll tell you who you are.”

On second thought if she’s going out by herself, there’s an obvious problem, the last I heard 30% of women cheat, however 50% of men cheat.

My husband is picky on what I wear and where I go for good reason too! And that is okay with me. To me, if you are worried or not akay with what she is wearing it should be okay to talk to her and “tone it down” a bit. There is a limit when you are married to what you should be showing. Atleast to me. To high of a skirt or to low of a shirt if my husband isn’t there ehh. He’d have a problem with it.

But, a woman wants to know she looks good. At 27 and being married for 8 yrs and 3 kids later… i like a glance every once in awhile. but by no means does that mean I am looking for someone. sometimes when women get older, we doubt ourselves. we wonder if we can still entice the guy. She picked you up and she has you. maybe she wants to spice things up? What can you do to make things (like you used too) Take her on some hot hot dates! Go out with her. But a woman still needs her girl time. But know her friends too. Just as she should know yours.

Don’t doubt her motives. If you do, think of how you have been with her. are you keeping it alive? being a bump on the log? do you make things fun for her? what things have faded away from the beginning of your relationship with her. If you have kids… get a babysitter ((if they are young)) take her out for a night of fun!

True, I am not worried about her so much, but as hot as she looks in it I am for sure worried about the guys, lol.

yes

Honestly i would be i mean she is your wife she should only want to look that way for you in the bed room not for the world too see

^^ to comment on ur comment. i sometimes try to get boys to hit on me, just so i can say ‘ im taken by HIM’ kinda show both myself and him off, yu know? maybe next time yu can go with her and be like ‘ yea.. thats mine. ‘ lol

are yu guys in a good relationship? dont jump to conclisions but she might just want attention. are you giving her enough attention? girls crave that suff. youre her husband of course, you are allowed to talk to her about it. “honey ive noticed u like to wear this clothing when you go out. this is fine with me but i was just curious why???” maybe that will help :D

yes,,, its true gets wants to look sexy so she can be easily hunted… she is your wife ofcourse

I would be a little cautious if I were you, but you know her and trust her so don’t lose the trust because of what she wears. Maybe you could go out with her when she wears something like that?

I think it depends, does she dress like that when you go our together? Or is it only when she goes out by herself?