I think that women are victimized sometimes because they are viewed as weak and merely sexual objects for mens pleasure. A confident woman, however, will not let herself be used and knows that she has power in her sexuality.
In the actual act of sex, I think that men often do the work, so if anything it is unfair for them.
Totally unfair for men in my opinion they're expected to do a lot and it's far more enjoyable for women, unless you don't like your partner.
in what way? :x