Why would she believe them over me,im supposed to be her bff!?

Okay. I’ve known cinthya since 2 grade and im in the 8th now. I’ve told her all my secrets and everything I feel. We have hungout everyday and been like sisters. Then someone told her that I hated her. I don’t hate her, why would I? If I did hate her, I would be a b. To her and I wouldnt tell her my secrets. I don’t know why she would even consider that!! She is really making me mad!!, I mean- she has been my best friends since like ever, and we have shared everything about each other, and when someone (she wont tell me who said ihated her) tells her that I hate her, she completely believes them! Honestly, in my opinion, she should have more faith in me! O! And now she is going out with the boy I like! Why is she acting like this, and why did she completely believe I hate her?! And I have to admit, it is kinda fun not being friends with her, hanging out with my other friends I see how clingy she was, I feel like im open to a lot more things, is that wrong of me to feel?

Answer #1

Kimberly Says: STOP KISSING HER BEHIND

Ok Thats A Girl I know she says Stop kissing her Behind … I say… That happned to me I just asked god to make her understand that she was making no sense. And Try apologizing more. And sometimes act like you don’t need her.

YOU NEED your “BFF”

Answer #2

I have had this problem here is what you do: 1)find out who told her that 2)tell her they are a**es and are jealous of your good relationship 3)remind her of the good times you two have had 4)hopefully she will come and see the light

xoxo good luck!!<33

Answer #3

Well if you truely do love her as a friend then maybe you should try talking to her and see whats up and why she believed them. But if you don’t feel the need to because you don’t want her to be super clingy, then maybe you should just lay off for awhile, and have fun with your other friends. She obviously doesn’t seem like a good friend either way.

Answer #4

You need to talk to her and ask her why shes mad at you. She will say its because somebody told her you hated her, then you would ask her why she would believe somebody about that. Honestly, I don’t think thats all it is. If you guys have been friends for so long, she would believe you first. There is most likely something else that has happened and made her upset.

Answer #5

I have, we have been sending messages on fb. she says she needs time to think about it, but I think she justs doesnt want to be friends with me cause I told her that she can either believe them or me

Answer #6

sit her down and talk to her, if she is really your friend she will understand your side. but people do change over time she may not be the same person you met in grade 2.

Answer #7

Well, man, you say that your friend isn’t attentive or faithful. But look at you, you’re saying that you actually enjoy not having her as a friend. Seems like you’re not faithful enough to keep liking her after a petter argument. If you still value this friendship then go talk to her. Sit her down and ask her what the deal is.

Answer #8

Hey im 13 and hadf the exact same problem as you … me and my bff shared secrets and went through things together id never imagine going through with anyone else until one day she changed, and became a total bi**h… we still speak but we are never the same as we used to be … we both moved on if you feel its fun without her maybe you shiuld just move on too … maybe you will make up somtikmes close friendships are great somtimes they suck Lol cheer up :) x

Answer #9

I think she just might be changing, new friends maybe, I think its best not to worry about it or make a big thing about it, because whatever will happen happens, dont sweat it im sorry your going thrugh this, I remember when I was a teenager, things like that seemed like the world was going to end, keep your head up. if she is suppose to be your best friend, I dont think she would have to think about it.

Answer #10

(: I got her back!!! we are friends again!!

Answer #11

If she’s a TRUE friend she’ll stick by you no matter what, thats all I can say.

Answer #12

good its best not to :D

Answer #13

o, im defenitly not grieving and this is for sure not the end of my world, im making the best out of this situation.

Answer #14

good for you.

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