I was just wondering like why is it so important that everyone has to like "do it" at such early ages like 14-16 like I mean its the only reason I dont wanna go to high school sometimes that's what I think about for that reason exactly. I find it sicking and just pure sutpid. What to do to calm nerves for my future at high school or any schools or tips you got tell me
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I dont think virginity is that important. I think what is important is to do it when you know you are ready (well-educated about the repercussions of it) and when you know the person you're doing it with is worth it. its something you should not regret.
what I see about some kids (TAKE NOTE, SOME) nowadays is that they rush growing up and sometimes entangle themselves in situations that they can't take hold of. :S responsibility is something that some kids should start to learn. dont do it for the sake of doing it or for fitting in or when you're pressured to do so. it takes a mature person to say no when you know you are not certain yet.
dont be afraid of going to high school :) you have your own reasons for staying a virgin and dont let others pressure you if you still believe you arent ready. :) also, school's really for education and learning. some kids seem to be forgetting that already. :S
what I recommened, don't have sex until you're out of high school. not only will you be happier in high school, but you'll feel so much better about the relationships you have.
no one can say that you're a slutty if you're not doing anything :P so you won't have all that extra drama that isn't needed. also, you'll be looked up to by your friends. they'll be jealous :)
boys won't be able to have that part of you, which will not only make it easier if relationships don't last, but it'll make the boys go CRAZY! haha I would LOVE that ;) some might leave, but that just means they're only in it for sex. you're so much better off not wasting something THAT important on guys that don't mean anything, or do mean something now, but won't later.
Different people are ready to explore their sexuality at different ages. Naturally knowledge of birth control and STDs is important to know.
In some circles there is pressure for members to loose their virginity but not everyone is like that in school. You should be able to find friends with the same outlook and priorities you have. Resisting peer pressure is an important life skill to develop. If someone is pressuring you to do something you think is wrong or don't want to do than they really aren't your friend.
You don't HAVE to do 'it'. lol.
It's better that you don't, I think. =P
Becoz if something happens, *cough*prego*cough*, then you won't be able to change it.
You'd have to grow up super fast. =P
Not everyone does it in high school. I'm 14 and I don't plan on doing the act until I'm married--and only to my husband. =]
So, don't be afraid of high school!! ^^
In high school it is a little scary but once you get use to it its nothing but always stand your ground dont let anyone boss to around because in the in they are just like you just there to learn and no is no no matter what good luck im sure you will be fine
not everyone loses there virginty young am almost 18 and still a virgin.