ok I hear people always saying like you dont want to lose your virginity to the wrong person or to early and regert it but im 14 and my boyfriend and I want to have sex we've been going out for over a year and I trust him to be careful but my friends tell me to wait and stuff but like ok this is my question Why is your virginity so important??I dont know why and no one else does either so whats so important about it?
Well your 14, your nothing but a child. Until your 18 is it even an option really. It's gross, why in the world are you even thinking of something like this?
Can't people think normal teenager stuff anymore?
Don't you have bigger problems like passing middle school? Passing pre-algebra?
I think life is more important than these horrible thoughts and questions of yours.
It's important to keep it till you get married:
1. Respect towards yourself and your body and your heart.
2. Repect for the one you will marry and your children.
14 years old? I know you might not comprehend this now because I was once 14 but now that I look back I kick myself for ever thinking of something so mature that you are obviously immature about.
Let's focus on school and your future. You should make room in your brain for more important questions that really need to be addressed now.
Uh, it's like having your first kiss, only 100x more meaningful. You don't want to go out kissing some random person do you?(if you do, then I can't wait for your question of "am I slut cause I had sex wit 30 guyz?!") Well, think of it like that, only 100x the experience and meaning. Also, when people have sex, they release fumes that connects each other together genetically. When either person feels that they don't know you enough before having sex, it will complicate things and probably end up bad. But if you want to lose your virginity, go on. But if you want to go with what ty said and end up on the 10th person, I know me as a person wouldn't want to hang out with you.
having sex with someone means that you are risking pregnancy and STDs. If you are not for abortion and adoption then you have to know that person will help you out until your child is out of college. Every guy will tell you that he'll do it, and they'll seem amazing and honest, if they weren' t convincing we wouldn't believ them, and girls would never get hurt. It hurts like hell for a lot of girls when they lose their virginity, like me, and if I hadn't been with someone who cared about me, and loved me, and knew me so well that he couldn't possibly do or say the wrong thing, I would have been scared shitless.
Ok honestly I think virginity is overrated. Having said that, having sex (whether it is with the first or the tenth person) is a big deal... your relationship is going to change and just stuff changes... and sometimes people regret not waiting longer... also its a big deal in other ways, pregnancy, stds, etc etc... sex is not something you can take lightly...
its important because once you lose its gone forever. and your right if loos eit to the wrong person it could hurt you in the long run. your virginity is "YOU" only you can control what happens to it. so make sure when you loose it its special and as well as the person.. I hope this helped/
I guess the only way your going to find out is to give this boy your virginity...Its what happens AFTER the relationship ends (which will most likely happen) Trust me, sex changes a relationship! a lot of people have regretted having premarital sex, but nobody has ever regretted waiting.
In fact it is not so important. But loosing it before the right time is not good for your future. You may get disillusioned and cynical, what is not good at all.
ok your not helping I need to know what virginity I know you havent had sex yet but whats so important seriously why does it matter?
OK since your 14 I dont like I had sex and I am 15 and I regreet it I think you should wait!!!
"fumes that connect each other genetically?"
where did you get that one from?