Why is my daughter acting this way?

arnt to be feared my butt!!! I happen to be a 13yr old who was rapped by a family member, and trust me, shes lucky she doesnt remember. I know how it sounds…but please take into consideration your daughter…like REALLY think,,,life is hard enough with out all that other crap going on,,,well for me personaly…childhood was so awkward, I didnt know I was raped until like 5th grade…when, I mean really wats the point NOW. so, maybe she didnt know what was happening, and …well im just trying to help, but I hate talking about it and, its KILLS me that I told my mom, and she acts like nothing happened, Denyal. so in a way shes lucky to have someone to listen. best of luck.

hi there, yes deffinitly take your girl to a dr, or therapist. she probably needs that help for her to help her self. and she needs you more than anyone right now. if sumthing that bad did happen it best to get to the bottom line fast! and take care of the issue then and there asap!! you cant always trust your closest friends, and family members. my mom was sexually molested when she was little like 6 years old by her older brother :( … and I mean people you trust and care about still couldve hurt your baby. sooo please.. see wats going on. and fast. and dont trust anyone bc you love them lol. your daughter comes first… and you gotta think back when it all started happening, and who she was around during that time.. bc if she cant remember bc the poor things tramatized, well maybe you can remember. connect the dots. im sure your daughter would be so thankful and happy she has you to help her. and it would change her whole life. good luck.. I send my prayers. <3 jackie

Well I’m 14 and just skimming questions and I read this one, wow! That is a scary thought, is she your foster child or somthing? Because it sounds like it, and I agree with the first person you should probly take her to a counsler, and a doctor to check to see if she has had a problem. I am sorry I can’t provide much but I hope your daughter gets well. Oh and try talking o her like ask her what the man looks like and stuff like that so she can help forget about it by passing it out of her thoughts to sound so someone else understands, maby that will help, because I’m bit of a loonitic only child that talks to him self too much and I’ve learned it helps to talk about things even to your self. That’s how I get through very stressful Jr. High.

There is a possibility that something happened. And it is also possible that she will never remember. But a counselor can help her understand that her dreams / hallucinations aren’t to be feared. If you need to find a competent one I would think that her school would have a list of qualified people. Good Luck!!

I’d take her in to see a counselor. Or, one of those hypnoses people, you know? To see what’s up. Sorry, that’s thee only advice I have.

Plese take her to a councelor. That happened to me when I was 5 and I tried to block it out, and it was really hard I’m also 13 and are going to turn 14 this month but I didnt had sopport and I got it myself, so plese help her so she can get troguh this, at least she has you!

GOOD LUCK!!:)