Why is my mother acting this way?

I live a very privileged lifestyle, and my parents are really smart and went to ivy league schools, so they naturally expect the same of me. My dad grew up privileged, but my mom, not so much. My mom is just randomly mean to me (nothing physical, or anything) she is just plain mean. I know this is kind of a big deal question to be putting on fun advice, but I just really need some help as to what I can do to prevent her from treating me this way, why is she so mean to me? (do you think she is jealous of the way I grow up, etc.?)

Answer #1

There can a chance that she thinks that you are getting thigs easy and you don’t know how real life can be. It may be that she wants you to be someone, and to not think that just because you are growing up with a good life, it dosent mean you should not try hard. Or it can be that she is a woman who believes in teaching you stuff the hard way.

I think that the best thing to do is to just talk to her and let her know what you are feeling inside and let her know that you think that she is jelous meaby there is a deeper meanning and you guys just need to fing out.

Answer #2

We see questions like this on FunAdvice all the time so it is not a big deal at all. I suggest just catching her in a good mood then ask her to sit down and see for yourself what’s wrong. Just ask why she is angry with you, and what you can do to help resolve the problem. I doubt she is jealous of the way you are growing up because she is living in the same house as you and experiencing the same things.

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