Why havent I haven't started my periods yet?

I am 13 I haven’t gotten my periods yet but I have been gettin whitish yellowish discharge in my underware it gets so bad I have to put tissue in my underware :( all my friends have boobs and I read that your breasts start to develop properly after getting your periods! My friends have like 32,34 b,c cups and I am a 30 aa I font get much attention from the boys because I dont have boobs like my friends they wear low cut tops to show off their breasts and I cant cause I have nothing to show but I wear bra’s that are too big for me but I cant wear low cut tops cause they would know I have no breasts well they already know the boys tease me about it in school cause they compare me to my friends they say I’m like a slice of ham and my friends are like 2 coconuts please help me! Even if you have away to get periods faster I am thin for my age ! I am 5 stone and my friends are like 7 or 8 stone!

Answer #1

jesus, STOP comparing yourself to other people everyone develops differently, and at different rates you will go through puberty when YOUR body decides too, not when suposedly everyone else is now, your boobs are supposed to be small, every kids boobs dont just majically balloon out when you turn 13 they take years to develop, and some peoples develop earlier than others as for low cut tops, your a 13 year old kid FORGET about dressing sexy and forget about getting attention also FORGET about those boys there what, 13 years old? they dont even have a fully grown penis ok if there making fun of a child who hasnt gone through puberty, tease them about their small penis, because THEY havent started puberty either you will finnish going through pubert when your arund 18-21 years old thats when all the chnages, bigger boobs, bigger hips, gaining weight, body hair ect finnish happening so you have plenty of time to be patient and wait

as for the white stuff don’t worry its normal Its called discharge your vagina is a self cleaning organ and discharge is just what it cleans out discharge can be clear, milky white or light yellow and its liquidy goo that comes out of your vagina every day, often, or every now and then that’s why there’s an extra piece of material in girls underpants because of discharge if theres a bit too much of it use a pantyliner to absorb it

Answer #2

Oh my god, what is all this fuss about rushing to be a grown up my dear?! You have been blessed with no need for a bra at the moment, where as your friends that do need it are suffering with pain from carrying those coconuts all over the place…and if they have a “b-c” cup size now, just imagine in 10 years they will have not coconuts but watermelons that reach the floor with a bad back attached to it! Now, please explain to me the whole fuss about you wearing a bra?! Its annoying & uncomfortable…just enjoy the fact that you dont have to deal with all that yet! You can wear any type shirt where they cant their boobs will pop out…yours wont!

Now as for the Period…You have no idea how lucky you are that you still dont have to worry about bloating, water weight, cravings, cramps, headaches, emotional & unstable feelings or your hormones being all over the place. The loss of so much blood being cleansed from your body will make you tired, and you will feel weak, cranky with odd mood swings…Happy & laughing one minuet and sad, depressed or crying the next with no real reason except your emotional because of your hormones changing! Are you still sure you are in a hurry to get all this??? If I were you I would be jumping for joy that you dont have to worry about all that for now as well!

Now for that irritating discharge on your underwear, its nothing to be ashamed of, your vagina is a self cleaning organ & flushes out what it doesnt need. (with that said it doesnt mean you dont have to shower & wash it every day, because you do regardless) What I would recommend for you at this point would be to get a box of pantie liners like the ones called carefree. They come in all sizes shapes & even have scented ones…personally I dont like the scented ones because it can cause an itch after a long period of time & that area is very sensitive so…yeah…The pantie liners are very very thin pads made special for us girls/women to keep us & our underwear nice, clean & fresh… So, I hope I have taught you a few things on what to expect when you do happen to get all of those, boobs & your period…and what to do about the last issue. Good Luck my dear!♥

Answer #3

hunn, dont worry about it, I wear a 36 c and in 7th grade and all the girls I hang out with are a lot smaller than I am. they dont care. everyone grows differntley. once you do get”breasts” you will think back to the days you wish you had them, cause there not all that great

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