Why dont many people really like me at school?

be confident and dont care what they say be loud and be outgoing show them the side they dont see

you gotta be loud and outgoing. thats the kinda person people like.

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there probably jealous because your probably just to damn sexi for them… just find new crowds to hang with… different peps, good ones… I stopped hangin out with the “preps” cause there were gay… now I have my own group of peps extracted from every other group… ex preps,”thugs” \, some asians, the bad asses and some more, just make your own group… I don’t know

Because that’s life…it doesn’t matter how you act or look - there are still going to be people who dislike you, just as there are people that you dislike aswell. I was teased at school simply because I have red hair. Pathetic I know, but I just laughed it off. The best thing you can do is ignore them - if you respond they’ll do it even more because thats what they want. If you have a group of friends in school just stick with them - as for people who don’t want to be your friend, that’s just their loss. Forget about them. When I first started high school I had 3 friends because I didn’t know anyone else - now I have about 40 (or maybe more) people I know from that school. Don’t be shy (I know that’s easier said than done), just talk to people you sit next to in your classes, maybe join after school clubs - there great ways to get to know new people :) School is hard I know and you’ll have the haters and people who will put you down but you can’t let it all get to you. School is probably the best years of your life - I know you probably don’t think this but believe me, I left school a couple of months ago and I’m already dying to go back because I miss it so much! Just make the most of it and don’t be afraid to speak up every now and then :D

I go to a small school and there are only 2 boys in my class at first they were mean to me now they are friends wit me bcause we have many things in comman

‘im not mean to people and I really wanna no how I can get people to stop talking behind my back and be my friend and not being stabing me in the back to?’

Sounds just like high school really, no matter how nice you are there will always be people who want to bring you down. People are just immature and b*hy at that stage in their lives, the thing that gets you through it is if you work hard in a few years time you wont have to deal with people like that any more. As long as you have some good, loyal friends, that is better than many backstabbers?

‘you gotta be loud and outgoing. thats the kinda person people like.’

Horrible horrible advice. She shouldn’t have to change herself. And those qualities are hardly attractive, much better someone who is thoughtful, humble and introspective? More confident and assertive yes, I just wouldn’t rush to become like them.

Only bit advice I can give you is DONT BE SHY! because if you act shy they think they can get away with a lot if they say anything and you over hear ask them what there problem is just dont let them do that say what you think to them if they say anything so what your a lil big! gives them no bloody excuse 2 treat you like that dont worry they all sound very self concoiuse about themselves so they take it out on other “quiet and shy”

just dont let em get to ya