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Why Does She Think That My Friends And I Are Smoking Weed--?

I went by a friends house for about 7 hours and when I came home I was tired and wetn to sleep. my mom asked me if we were getting high. every time I come home she checks my pupils..why is she doing this I dont do anything to make her mistrust me

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Answer #1

I think lilirae and ty are right. Talk to her. Maybe she talked to some other mom and that person said something bout a kid who smokes or sells weed. Maybe that’s one of your friends.

If talking does not help, you can try to ‘mirror’ her behavior.

Pretend that you think she drinks secretly or that she abuses valium. Check the kitchen to see if she hides vodka or pills. Check her bags when she comes home from shopping. Tell her you are worried about her. Ask her what’s wrong whenever she looks tired or distressed. Be creative, be annoying. That will make everybody stop and think.

Answer #2

You are asking the wrong person. Talk to her. Sit her down and explain how you feel when does that. (Dont accuse her, or tell her what she should and shouldnt be doing, just explain how you feel and tell her you want to know why she does it). Now I’m sure you’ve asked her before. But I’m also pretty sure you were defending yourself, and not discussing your feelings about the situation.

Answer #3

itsmassie- that is the stupidest advice I’ve ever heard. You obviously have no idea what you are talking about. rainbow- You should sit down and talk to your mom about why she does that. Talk calmly and repectfully. Tell her how it makes you feel and ask if you’ve given her a reason to think that you smoke weed. Hope that helped. -Lilith-

Answer #4

Because weed make’s you very sleepy and if you come home and just go to bed she is just seeing the sines of weed.

Answer #5

just smoke a lot of weed then come home and fight with her. she’ll see that your grown..Now stop being a pussy

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