Why does my friend copy me so much?

I think that you just need to understand where she’s coming from. I’m sure it’s annoying like heck, but she’s copying you because she more than likely just has insecurities about who she is. She probably feels like being herself isn’t good enough, thus copying the one person she looks up to - you.

I’m not saying that you should just keep it to yourself, mind you. Maybe just encourage her to do things differently? Talk to her about things she likes and help her to find herself again. Instead of saying something you like, ask her what she thinks about something beforehand. After she has given her opinion, give yours and see if you can make something from it. If you guys go shopping together, encourage her to buy things she used to (if you genuinely think they looked good). Say something like “Do you remember that one shirt you used to wear? I think that looked awesome. This style looks almost exactly like it!” This way she can sway more, I guess, and you won’t hurt her feelings that way.

At the end of the day, remember that even though she copies you a lot, that sometimes she most likely will share a genuine liking of something. So try not to doubt her too much. Be kind, be careful and remember that she is your best friend.

Take care.

you cant and shouldnt I would love to have a me double :P those are pretty normal things I think everyone loves michael jackson plus you tend to use words that other people use around you obviousy if she thinks you have better fashion sense then she is gong to try and use your fashion sense insted

if she was dressing exactly like you and saying exactly what you say and talking like you talk…I could understand…but she isnt rilly talking to you..maybe she actually likes those things…every consider that?

Guess she wants a little more attention from you… Try being with her and talking to her more!

Maybe you could try talking to HER about it… instead of whining on the Internet like some kind of narcissist…