Why does it have to happen? Did I make the right choice?

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for more than a year. My parents of course, didn’t know about it. In addition, they won’t allow me to date at all, but I love my boyfriend so much. My parents began to suspect me because I talk to a boy over the phone. Just two days ago, my boyfriend and I decided that we should break up because he said maybe I should not deal with the guilt for lying to my parents all this time. So we broke up, and he was understanding… For some reason, I can’t stop crying when I think about it. I don’t want to lose him. Even after time past, I’m still crying. It just hurt so badly. It hurt for the both of us. Was breaking up necessary? Did I make the right choice?

Answer #1

I could not even start to talk about boys to my parents. They are already warning me and having serious expression on their faces. They even told me not hang out with boys at school at all. I understand what you mean but its not a choice for me… I’m sorry

Answer #2

So sorry none of my advice can help atm for you.Either your parents are super strict or maybe one of them was alittle bad as a teenager themselves.The part of not talking to boys at school thats gonna be a problem.What are they gonna do when you have a homework prodject that has you teamed with a boy.Are they gonna let you fail because of there own insecurities.Here’s another thought since you say they getting serious expressions on there face’s now try this.Try telling them you have always taught me right from wrong.You have always kept me safe and for that I thank-you.I also believe what you have taught me was to help me in life.I as a person will make mistakes we all make mistakes,but I will also learn from these mistakes.I would never use bad judgement as you have both taught me to use my brain.

Answer #3

Your young you have time on your side.Hiding it from your parents is never a good thing.Had they found out things could be much worse.Maybe introduce him to them not as your boyfriend but as a friend from school.It is always hard for parents to let there teenagers date.My advice is take the time to explore all possibilities where your parents are concerned express yourself without getting to upset that you would like to date even if it’s a study date something they can controll atm.

Answer #4

Well you take it from me it’s like romeo and juliet. :)

Just give yourself some time away from everyone to cool down for a few days then slowly ask your parents. Or you could at least ask them for your trust at the very least.

They might come round, they might not. But like people say ‘Follow your Heart’

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