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This to me is very important because I feel rejection usaully hurts people so bad I don't know they go crazy why does it hurt? How can you fix it
a bit late coming in... but speaking from experience, my sentiments are thus;-
Contrary to popular belief, the heart is the thinking faculty and not the brain. And if your heart is truly broken you would find this out very quickly. A broken heart my dears has little to do with rejection, a broken heart is a heart that has been ripped apart and torn asunder, of which rejection is one way that this can be effected though not the only way and in and of itself has not the capacity to tear a heart apart unless it was just last straw after a ton of other bad stuff.
Hence a broken heart = broken thinking = insanity = evil
I know when my heart broke, there was a forceful unrelenting pull to turn completely evil but I resisted and that took much strength and knowledge. I cannot imagine how that can be for a less experienced and less knowledgeable individual. you are more or less done for unless you have the tools to navigate the underworld.
I was not caught completely unawares cos i have some knowledge of psychology and spirituality, which in actual fact are very closely entwined, again contrary to popular belief.
The pain of a broken heart is inscrutable, putting it back together takes much effort, and it is far easier to hurt another than to heal oneself.
you cant really help them.. you just need tobe there for them if its a friend.. and if its someone that you broke their heart..they need space so they can get over you... But time is a great healer and so is them going out with other people.. I know it sounds messed up bt why do you think rebounds are for?? sometimes it takes another guy/girl to gt her/him to forget abt the person that broken their heart...
go evil ? wtf well maybe because no one likes to be rejected , its human nature, the only thing that can truely heal it is time + god = better , honestly , why try to do something on your own strength , everything will all fail you eventually.
TIME! time is a great healer
