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Why do people hate me at my new school?

Ok about a month ago I asked how to make friends at a new school now people just hate me im nothing but nice like guys are weird and girls are bitchie and some of the people I hang out with are well smokers and yeah but im only 14 year 9 so I dont know what to do in the group I only have about 4 people to talk to the others are just plain mean and please dont take this the wrong way im not racist but their is a dark girl and I hate her she is mean and nasty to me I have done nothing wrong and know I really hate her and she is like its illeagel to hate me so I dont want to tell her to leave me alone because I dont want to look like im racist because im not cause im friends with a couple of dark girls and so people at this school just hate me it sucks please help I just miss my old friends so much and I hate my new school and I have only been their for 6 weeks

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Answer #1

Just to get one thing clear, you don’t have to get everyone in the school to like you. If your nice and caring then someone is bound to like you, the people that your looking at just don’t have a level of appreciation for nice people.

Your not racist for not liking someone that is mean to you, her skin tone doesn’t come into this. She is just being mean and defending yourself isn’t racist. If you can, you can try and talk to your old friends, you don’t exactly need new friends especially when the new ones seem to be mean and just plain rude. If you have another form of contact, be it email or phone numbers use that. You can also try letters and post cards!

Its better to have one person that you can tell everything to and know you can trust that person then to have several distant people and not be able to share a thing with them.

Answer #2

Truefully, f*ck everybody at your school that doesn’t like you. Dont worry about them, the more you worry the more they will c that and the meaner they we will be to you. you are not going to be considered rascist for not like a black girl, stand up for urself, shes not considered rascist for not liking u. Also just keeping being the nice person you are and walk around your school like you dont care if they like you or not. Then people will gravitate towards your and your positive attitude

Answer #3

Perhaps a rumor started, Involving you. You might wish to question the people who act so severely with you. See what is wrong. A confrontation could help.

Answer #4

There will always be on person in your school who might not like you that much, even if your the most popular person. There was a girl at my school who was hated for over a year and now she’s hated by a few but is quite popular. Just make sure you stick up for yourself etc and be nice to people. Don’t try too hard to impress people, trust me it’ll seem ovbious to them. Stay nice and try to find common ground between you and those people being mean then you could talk about it to them when you work with them maybe and they’ll be like ‘Oh she’s not as bad as I thought’ if nothing works, they’re probably just jealous (: good luck x

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