Why do I hate so many people?

I just do not get along with anyone. I always find their flaws:too loud,laughs at stupid things,etc etc. I only have a handful of friends at school,and we’re not close. I even hate my family. My whole family. Mom,dad,brother,aunts,uncles,cousins,grandparents,everyone! I only like certain people:my idols/heros,my best friend (we’ve known each other since age 3) and some people over that I have met over funadvice and bzoink. Why is this?

Answer #1

I accept and appreciate your answers. Thank you. I’m a dark and lonely person by nature. I’ve always been quiet,shy,lonely,dark,pissed off,judgemental,etc etc. I’ll try to work on my judgemental part,though. I’m a perfectionist;everyone and everything has to be perfect to me. I myself am not perfect. I am trying to perfect myself. Make me a dream,with a model body. I guess I’m just an insecure little b*,because it seems people take me that way.

Answer #2

Maybe you just judge a person to easily on one little flaw they have. Everyone has a flaw, doesn’t mean you should hate them for it, nobody’s perfect. Sometime my friends annoy the hell out of me but I don’t hate them for it. And you shuoldn’t hate your family, were would you be without them. Be thankful you have a family! Unlike some children who have lost theirs. You need to open upand stop hating people because of insignificant things. What will happen if your best friend moves? Or what about when you go to college?Are you just going to hate everyone straight away and not get to know them? If you go around doing that nobody will want to know you and you’ll end up lonely. So just look past people little ‘’flaws’’ and get to know them. Also I don’t see how laughing at ‘’stupid things’’ is a flaw? Not everyone has the same humour as you.

Answer #3

well you need to stop judging people just keep it in you and even I hate someone but you have to live with it . and if you think their mean or a person you shouldnt be hanging with then dont hang with them and one day you will find your true mates x

Answer #4

You don’t hate me do you? =]

Answer #5

No,of course not!

Answer #6

hi im the same I dont get on with anybody I always fight with everyone always loose frineds and I dont know why either

Answer #7

If you have family problems, then a way to cope with it is to stay out of any fights and always have an explanation to what you are doing and always talk clearly and specifically. If youre just seeing all the bad in the world, then you are probably pessimistic and just need to lighten up and try finding a good point people have every time you find a bad point. You might just be kind of antisocial lone wolf. Or you could actually be ANTISOCIAL, as in, the disorder. Just some possibilities. I hope you don’t find anything New wrong with me because I’m already running my own self ragged.

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