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Why do I feel like I need a baby?

I am 17 years old, I have 6 sisters, they all have children. I have 16 neices and nephews. Ive been around children my whole life and baby sitting all the time. I used to go to prenatle and lamaze classes with my sisters every week so im very educated on pregnacy and having babies, what to do ect. I know alot of people say, “What until you get older to have a kid” But i feel like, i need a baby right now to keep me sane. I am very depressed and i have real bad panic attacks. But when im around babys i just feel calmer and feel better about my self. I am a virgin, not having sex, so before anyone goes along with the wrong idea. I am very scared of giving birth though. But i am very confoused. I want a child real bad. Just watching my neices and nephews grow up is such an amazing thing. What do i do? Im so confoused :(

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Answer #1

look in to a job at a daycare or something a really good thing would be like a full time nanny that way you get to be around children all the time. you should try spending as much time as you can before you have a child. you could try to help out oprhans and such be a motherly figre to those who don’t have a mom. having a baby of your own would be a very bad idea. you should already know the danger to the baby when you have a baby at such a young age ( the more stress and such of a teenager) could make you more likely to have a miscarge and that would just make things so much worst. plus they are a lot of work more than most teenagers can handle. you should wait until you are with someone you love to have a baby. Just spend more time around children ( try getting a roomate with a kid or something) and if all else fails there is always a doc who can try to help with meds or tearapy

Answer #2

your 17 a baby is not a good choice in my opnion get a puppy and treat the puppy as your baby minus the breast feeding tho that might be a little weard

Answer #3

IM 17 AND PREGNANT AND I WAS JUST LIKE YOU …DONT GET PREGNANT DONT DO IT! THE MORNING SICKNESS KILLS ME AND THE PAINS AND SLEEPING PATTERNS AND THE WHOLE PRENATAL PILL COCTAILS SUCK …TAKE CARE OF YOUR BODY AND DONT MAKE THE MISTAKE I DID AND REMEMBER THAT THE CONDOM IS ONLY 99.8 AND 99.9 PERCENT EFFECTIVE …IM PREGNAT EVEN THOUGH I USED PROTECTION…SO BE CAREFULL

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