Why is my boyfriend so attached now that I'm pregnant?

Why is it that now that im pregnant my boyfriend is so attached to me.he calls and texts me 24/7 always wants to be around me and cant go without a day that he cant see me!! Its getting really annoying and I feel like I just dont want to be with him anymore but I know I still want to be with him but the things he does is just so annoying… Im going to be 18 in june and hes already 18…I recently got a job because no one seems to hire him after all the applications he’s turned in…when im at work hes always calling and texting and I already got in trouble for being on the phone…why am I feeling like this and why is he so attached!!!

Answer #1

honey you shud be grateful he dun pick up and leave when he knows about your pregnancy! I believe his fatherhood streak is coming out now, but it’s smothering you. He’s just really worried about you. Guys always feel so helpless when things happen to females’ bodies this way. Just let him know that you knows how to take care of urself, and you will be fine. Or set a time, when you cud call or he cud call to check up on u! congrats on your pregnancy and your marvellous boyfriend! =D

Answer #2

I agree with all of the above. Great advise guys.He is being a protective daddy but its not the right time or place that he is doing it at so you need to sit him down and tell him how happy you are that he cares. This is very important because you dont want him to not are. Also tell him that he will be the first one you tell if there is any problems at work or with the baby to make him feel important., I really agree he does need to keep trying to find work, He is bored and prob wants to chat to you because hes lonelly. I think if he found a job too then you guys would both be much happier. Good luck though your pregnancy.

Answer #3

Hes bored, and needs to get a life…better yet, a job!

Answer #4

You. Are. Carrying. His. Child! Why wouldn’t he want to check on you all the time!? Not to mention he probably loves you to death! He just doesn’t want anything bad to happen to you or the baby, that’s all. When you are pregnant, a lot of stuff can go wrong, and he doesn’t want you to strain yourself, it’s quite sweet actually. I’d love it if one day when I’m pregnent [so far into the future] that a guy would treat me like that. I enjoy being smothered though, I see it as a good thing because that means they care about you and stopping would mean they care less about you. Besides…If he doesn’t call you or text you, he’s going to start stalking you to make sure you are safe all the time! I mean it, I know guys who have ditched school to do it!

Answer #5

Ooh well he’s wicked worried about you! He’s probably read up on all the complications that could occur during a pregnancy, and wants to make sure you didn’t fall, or pick up something too heavy. It’s sweet! But just sit him down and tell him “Look, I’m totally fine, I promise I’ll be careful, and I can work for a long time before I should take it easy.” Let him know that you appreciate his concern, but being pregnant doesn’t change your need for a little alone time.

Answer #6

honey he just is excited that you are pregnant you should be happy that he is excited im pregnant to and I know how it feels because my boyfriend is so excited that he cant control it but yeah just tell him that you need some time alone and turn off your phone if you dont want to get texts if he askes why just say that it died. he also may feel the responsibility is his to make sure that you are ok. He also may be bored and taking the opportunity without him working to talk to. I also agree with the above comment.

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