Why do children & marrige ruin friendships as you get older ?

maybe you need new single friends that are into the guys night out… and your other friends will still be there just not the way you want them too– BBQ’s and Birthday parties all the way…

I know I just feel friendships are an important too . And I’m not asking for the time they spend with kids or anything . I feel I am a loyal friend I have spent more time with my friends then some of their current wives & I can’t feel upset that they can’t make the time to hang maybe once a month even. Nobody is that busy.

Frankly, when you get married, your family becomes your life, be that just your wife or any kids that will almost inevitably result. They’re spending all their time with their families because they love them and want to. Plus, raising a family takes a lot of time and work. Sorry if it sucks, but it’s the truth.

Taking an educated guess here. Could it be the fact you ‘are not ready to settle down’ and want ‘to go out and have a little fun’ are the reasons your mates are reluctant to go with you. I’m sure your mates would enjoy hanging out with you but I think their girlfriends or wives have a say in the matter. Some girlfriends and wives do have their ‘thumbs’ so ‘tightly pressed’ under their partners’ heads and love to control their man’s social activities.

Even I can see from my lack of martial experience, that single and unmarried guys have different agendas and lifestyles to those of married men and vice versa.