Why do adults tell me stuff that is not true?

Thank You!!!You seem nice too!!!

r you a guy or girl

you are funny!I like you!(As a person)Thanks!that helped!you sound very nice!

Now I’m 14!Yay!

I don’t know from your description you sound attractive to me.

But you do sound very insecure, and due to that if you are trying to blend in, no one will notice you. Remember, just because you see a imperfections in your self (either physical or personality / emotionally) doesn’t mean other people see them. If you act like you are confident, people will see you as a confident person. If you act insecure and unsure of yourself that is how people will see you.

Or it could be that guys are intimidated by a how attractive you are. They think to themselves “Oh man - look at how good looking she is, I would never stand a chance”.

Your only 14. Are thes guys in your age range? If not they probably just dont want to be locked up in the slammer. If they are your age it could just be they are nervous to talk to you becuase you are too pretty or too tall or just believe you are beautiful and give off an over confidence that makes it seem you are better than everyone. Make your self more approachable. Talk to them.

a lot of people um guys are very intimidated by how attractive a girl can be some act shy, aggressive, or pretend that you dont exist a lot of it to get your attention. the shy and “pretend your not there” may think you have a boyfriend and say to them selves that your probably taken. and when your parents of just adults say your a attractive woman is because A : you are beautiful to them. B : they went through the same thing and finally realized that they were too after being told a million times. no one is happy with them selves but I totally agree you should be confidant with your self …ok ill shut up now

No!Thank you!But it seems llike all the guys like big boobs or a big butt or whatever.Biys even say I am ugly sometimes.I don’t look hurt,but I am.I can’t show them that or they will pick on me if I back down and show them it hurts.So I have to pretend I am not hurt.It is really hard when you feel like you are about to scream and cry your eyes out.