Why couldn't I tell when he was fingering me?

Yesterday my boyfriend started fingering me, and it was my first time. He was very gentle and slow, but I couldn’t tell when he was ‘in’ me at first. Is that normal? And when I could tell, there was no good feeling. It just hurt, is that normal for your first time?

Answer #1

Could be because it was the first time that he did it to you. Not all woman find it pleasuring the first time. Also was his nails clipped and clean, could be that he was scratching you. Next time get him to play around with your clit and surrounding area first so that you can get wet properly, then let him try fingering you.

Answer #2

No, I was the third girl he’s done it to.

Answer #3

Could be sumthing he was doing too. Was it his 1st tyme?

Answer #4

he could have been hitting something in you…it doesent always hurt the first time bu t its normal

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