How do I tell him I dont want him to finger me?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 8 months…but we have history before we started going out, so we’re pretty comfortable together. But I just dont know how to tell him this specific thing!

Answer #1

Tell him you don’t want him to finger you and that your not ready not to presure you just to give you time.

Answer #2

its better to talk about it with him. if you guys start getting intimate and if he tries to go for it then gently push his hand away. you should definitly talk to him about this becasue you dont want him to think that your not attracted to him. the best thing in my opinion to say is, “im not quite ready to take our sexual relationship that far yet, when the right time comes it will happen.” if hes a good boyfriend he will respect your thoughts.

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