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Why cant I talk to him

Lately I have been diagnosed with social anxiety disorder. I am 17, never had a boy friend, I never talk to guys, and yet I am totally in love with a guy I have known for three years. We hardly talk but I want to. Because of social anxiety, I have a hard time with this, everytime I am near him, I blush. Besides this, I am not the perfect thin girl. I am not fat, but I dont normally wear make up, my clothes are plain, and I am self conscious about my wight. I really want to be with him… What do I do

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Answer #1

well this is hard but when you see him in the hall or where evr just say “hey whats up” or “hi” start off with small conversations then in will grow into a bigger conversation k? I hope I helped good luck :)

Answer #2

Well first of all you dont need to be the “perfect thin girl”. Having said that, you say you dont normally wear makeup, your clothes are plain, those are simple enough to fix… go get some makeup and some clothes. Might help with your self confidence… Just say hi… it’s the first step…

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