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Why cant I talk to him

Lately I have been diagnosed with social anxiety disorder. I am 17, never had a boy friend, I never talk to guys, and yet I am totally in love with a guy I have known for three years. We hardly talk but I want to. Because of social anxiety, I have a hard time with this, everytime I am near him, I blush. Besides this, I am not the perfect thin girl. I am not fat, but I dont normally wear make up, my clothes are plain, and I am self conscious about my wight. I really want to be with him… What do I do

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Answer #1

I dont no anything about having a relationship but I would suggest talking 2 him more each day and that will build up your confidence little by little. good luck

Answer #2

hey I know how you feel. but it seems a lot like what your feeling is just low self esteem, if feeling prettier would boost your self esteem try putting some light makeup on and wearing a cute outfit that you feel comfortable in, if you feel sexy them that will translate into your confidance. as for this guy I would ask yourself if he is really in your range, if you find that he is I would ask for his number, sometimes its easier to talk to someone via text to see what you have in common so that provides a basis for when you talk to him in person. I wish you luck!

Answer #3

I agree you need to talk 2 him get 2 know him what he likes ands stuff

Answer #4

I don’t wear make up and I don’t care much how I dress and my boyfriend is roseboy (the comment above) and he loves me for who I am.

Answer #5

ya.. put on some makeup to make him notice you and wear an outfit you feel sexy in

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