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Okay so I lost my virginity on monday night and I gave it to the guy that I have been with since 5th grade. He's really special to me and we both decided to keep it secret. But I feel like I need to tell someone so that I can vent my feelings and my experience, but you know, people will spread it and I don't want my reputation tarnished. How can I vent my feelings and know who to trust with them??? Help me out here guys.
Secrets are good, but ya gotta let someone in on it. Tell someone who doesn't go to your school that you trust. and if you're with the guy for a while and everything's good.. I really honestly wouldn't worry about getting a bad rep... girls give it up after knowing a guy for a week sometimes. But, I could understand that you want to keep things private. Actually, maybe you should wait a little bit like a month or so, and then vent to someone. I don't know, hope I helped.
I dont see the need in telling this to someone else but if you really want, maybe you can tell one of your most trusted friends who have already lost theirs to someone who they've been with a long time so you'll have like a another thing in common. I dont see a bad rep possibility in here, I mean, youve been with the guy a long time.
