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Why am I pissed off, should I be?

Ok so I’ve been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and just last week I found out he kissed this girl a couple weeks before we got together. We’d been talking to each other for a couple months beofre be went out and we really liked each other, this is gonna sound really lame but at this point we’d never met because he lives in scotland and I live in england so we couldnt see each other at that time but we really liked each other. I found out that he’d kissed her from one of his friends at a party and if it wasnt her his friend I propbably would never of known, the thing that bothers me isnt that he kissed her but that he knew me when he did kiss her he called the day he kissed her and he didnt tell me, ok we didnt go out but I know the girl and I just feel I had a right to know pluss she wasnt anything to be desired. Maybe its just me but it really p*ssed me off and im just wondering if you were in the same situation, would you feel the same?

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Answer #1

Nothing was sirius between you guys, meaning you guys were not going out so I think that you should not be mad. He’s being a good boyfriend and all know is he not? So I think that there should not be a problem beteewn you guys.

Answer #2

Well you guys weren’t together when he kissed this girl. Plus when it comes to a long-distance relationship, you never know what might be going on. It’s your choice to stay mad, but if you’re mad about a kiss that happened before your relationship, what’ll happen when it’s during? If he’s been a good boyfriend up until this point, there’s no reason to be pissed. Especially since, you weren’t together when it happened.

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