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Jealous friends pissing me off

okay im bi and well I have some bi and lez friends. and they are good friends to me. and some of them have crushes on me. but say they are fine just being freinds. but that was befor I met my girlfriend. befor I fell so hard for her. and snice then they’ve been acting so differnt. they talk trash about her and say she isnt worth my time. and that I need to move on or see whats rigth in front of me. because if I dont I’ll get hurt. but they’ve never met my girlfriend so they wouldnt know! they’re starting to really piss me off with all there bullsh*t. what do I do so I can still be friends with them but get them to stop dissin my girl and stop being so jeouls?

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Answer #1

_> been there before (a ‘friend’ who has a crush on me (shes a girl) keeps saying weird things)

anyway just tell em to stop it because YOU chose to be with her so they should leave you alone on that matter because they wouldnt want to be in the same position your girl is in. make it clear its your choice and not theyres,

Answer #2

tel them its upsetting you disrespecting your girlfriend like they are and that they have never met her so they have no right to judge, and if there real friends they will understand and stop doing it. Or maybe you should introduce your girlfriend to your friends an show them how you see her. good luck xx

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