Why am I always at fault?

Why does it seem like all my dad ever does is pick on me? Out of all my siblings it’s always me. “Did you wash the dishes?” ‘No.’ “Why not? Go.”

It’s always me.

“Did you fold clothes yet?” ‘No, not yet.’ “What? Go.’

I get yelled at for not doing things, why me? He doesn’t yell at them. It’s always me. Why? I don’t have powers or anything, I’m a human being too, I get busy too. I don’t always have time. WHY ME?

Why do I always get in trouble? ALWAYS?

Answer #1

Anticipate and stay 2 steps ahead of him…I wish you the best !!

Answer #2

I have the same promble plus I am a onle child if I am in my rom they are like came shut the front door an dthere sitting right beside it do you have thing to help me

Answer #3

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Answer #4

try to make him understand you need space and time to do things. Tell him that you think that the chores in you house should be split up around iwth all of hte children. Inform him that it does not seem right that he is always angry or seems angry at you but not the others. Remind him of things you do responsible like school work ect. Pay attention to how he acts with the other children. BEST OF LUCK TO YOU!

Answer #5

It’s always the

“As your growing up.. yur getting more lazy!”

I hate this.

Answer #6

Learn to prioritize. If you’re always getting yelled at for not doing your chores….take 20 minutes and just do them. Your folks will be happy and quit riding you about them. You’ll be happier to not have them constantly yelling at you. I hate cleaning, but it’s a fact of life you just have to do.

Answer #7

Hah funny cz they’re not even ALL my chores.

Answer #8

Are you the oldest? If so, that could be why they seem to single you out more. I bet if you got your stuff done, Your parents would understand that yours is done and they’d go after the other siblings to get theirs done. If they are constantly telling you because more times than not you haven’t done yours…it’s easy to use you as a target. Try it. You may find the results to be worth the effort to just do the chores. When they say “as you grow up you’re getting lazy” it’s because they want to instill good values in you so that when you move out and are on you’re own, you’ll be able to keep house & not be this slob that no one wants to room with. I’ve had messy roommates. And I’ve kicked them out because of it. I don’t need to get bugs because they’re lazy. Don’t take it as a personal attack. Consider it them teaching you skills you need for your future. ease up on them.

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