Why can't I be good enough for someone?

Guys are guys, girls are girls, people are people, however everyone ends up with different attractions no matter how much you break it down. Simply stated, you haven’t met every guy and therefore just because things with the guys you’ve been interested in haven’t worked out, doesn’t mean that things will never work with any of the other millions of guys in this country.

Of course you’re going to be discouraged after things don’t work; you want them to, and you can’t really ever understand why they don’t even when they’re explained. But dwelling on the failures will keep you in a mindset to continue that trend. Accept past relationships haven’t worked and move on. It’s easier said than done, but it’s direly important that you do it.

Attractions are what they are, and you can’t change them no matter how much you try. They develop by themselves and most of the time we’re unaware until they’re triggered and it goes off, “hey, I really think dark hair and eyes are pretty.” or something like that. If you’re young especially, you usually haven’t really figured out much in terms of what you like to find in other people; even more so with guys. Don’t assume it’s your fault or something wrong with you because things don’t work out.