Why does it feel like I'm not good enough for any guy?

Have you ever crushed on a guy but somehow KNEW you weren’t gonna get him, just cause you’re not good enough? Well, that’s been happening to me my whole life… Last year I finally had my first serious relationship but it ended up in flames and now I really like this guy who seems…PERFECT…at least, for me. he’s on student council and he’s really funny and we talk sometimes but I feel like I don’t live up to his expectations girlfriend-wise… How do I get this feeling to go away? Am I really not good enough to have a decent guy? Or am I just too afraid of rejection? …

Answer #1

dont ever feel like your not good enough. has it ever occured to you that maybe their not good enough for you. this same thing happend to me where I found a guy that was, in my eyes, perfect. he worked out, had a great body, was way into god, was nice and sweet and stuff. but I didnt meet his expectations. At first I was really down about it, but then I thought, if im not “good enough” for him, then theres a serious problem with him because I know im a great girl. and im sure you are too. and what I did that really helped is I wrote down all of my good qualities and bad qualities. and I tried my hardest to fix my bad qualities without changing myself. and I also got my friend, who I made promise me to be 100 percent truthful, to help me out.

I hope I helped. and you are good enough I promise xoxo megan

Answer #2

never ask the question if you are good enough always wonder if they ae good enough for you, youre a teenage girl and these feelings are going to come and go. never feel like you are not good enough, cause you always are.

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