There are 11 , 12 , 13 & 14 year girls on this site discussing their sex lives & contraceptives . When I was this young my parents monitored my computer time and what I wrote . It's absolutely disgusting that girls are doing this at such a young age . And the parents are so blindsided that they don't even KNOW what their children are doing .
Doesn't anyone care about school ? Doesn't anyone care about THEIR bodies ? I mean , most girls won't even lend a pair of shoes out , but they'll give away their body like it's going out of style . Do we value fabric more than our bodies ?
First up, I called what they are doing "absolutely disgusting." So sir, if you are going to attempt to use my quotes against me, please use it in the correct manner. Second off, I have a lot of trouble reading what you're writing because of your finger to caps lock relationship. A rule follower? It's always lovely and interesting to see what people, much like yourself, have to say about me. Especially since you know nothing about me nor my beliefs and you've created this analysis based on nothing more than a post. I am no religious fanatic, as a matter of fact...I am anti-dogma. Also, please note that in my original post I stated ages from 11-14. Don't you think you're insulting the parental mass? I suppose you're very one track minded. And no sir, I am not a judge and you do NOT have to spell correctly on my behalf, it just minimizes your intelligence. I also am a writer so I tend to be a bit of a word dictator. Whoever said anything about pleasing everyone? Please take your creepy interest in minors disguised in a helping hand elsewhere because you are nothing more than an ignorant man. Remember this, just because someone at fourteen or fifteen is quite impressionable..does not mean they are incapable of judging what is right from wrong. Discussing three-sums and orgies so unspeakably young is nothing more than boasting. They are simply proud of it and you've taken quite an interest in it. THAT'S what I mean about "where are the parents?" If you have an issue with my beliefs, well, I'm sorry. Pedophiles lurk the internet and prey on the weak, discussing openly about their over active sex lives at a fragile age is food for the hungry pedophile. While you may not be one, they are online and they are smart. So who are you really protecting? You are passionately attempting to dismantle what I say so much, that it concerns me. These young ladies have their almost EXACT location on here and it is not difficult to find people, you should know that the accessibility to private information is greater now than ever. You claim to be such an advocate but you are simply putting these children on the chopping block. Then again, personal gain plays a role. You said it yourself, people only think of themselves.
ONE,ALL CAPS ARE EASY TO READ.TWO,JUST BECASUSE IM AN ADVOCATE FOR PEOPLE YOUNG OR OLD,RICH OR POOR, IN OR OUT OF PRISONS DOES NOT MAKE ME A ?.I DEFENDED PEOPLE FOR TEN YEARS.DIDNT MATTER HOW OLD THEY WERE OR WHAT THEY DID.DEFENDING PEOPLE IS WHAT I DO.YA,IM NOT A RULE FOLLOWER LIKE YOU.SORRY, BUT I THINK FOR MYSELF.IF I SEE SOMEONE HURT A KID EVEN VERBALLY AND I GET UPSET..DONT CARE MUCH FOR BULLIES OR RELIGIOUS FANATICS OR SELF RIGHTIOUSNESS.I DONT NEED TO SPELL PERFACTLY FOR YOU,YOUR NOT A JUDGE.A 9YEAR OLD HAS MORE BRAIN CELLS THEN ANY ADULT ,LOOK IT UP.TRY READING A BOOK CALLED "A SHORT STORY OF NEARLY EVERTHING ",bill byson.I THINK THE STATISIC WAS IN IT..AFTER 9, BRAINCELLS DECREASE FOR THE REST OF OUR LIVES.SO KIDS ARE NOT STUPID.UNEXSPIERIENCED YES,BUT,NEVER CALL A KID "ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING"THATS JUST CRUEL TO SAY TO A LARGE MASS ONLY BECAUSE OF their AGE.ITS VERY PRETEXTUAL AND ANTI-CONSTITUTIONAL.THREE,YOU SAID 13 AND 14 ,I WASNT TALKING ABOUT PRETEEN.THESE KIDS LOOK FOR HELP,AND AS A REPRESENTATIVE FOR ALL PARENTS YOU JUST TELL THEM TO SHUT UP AND FIGURE IT OUT FOR them SELVES.THIS UNCOROPERATION IS THE PROBLEM WITH OUR YOUTHS AND OUR SOCIETY AS A WHOLE..NO ONE WANTS TO TAKE THE TIME TO CONSENTRATE ON ANYONE BUT THEMSELVES.OUR KIDS NEED KNOWLEDGE AND BECAUSE THEY CANT GO TO THEIR PARENTS THEY ARE FORCED TO GO TO THE INTERNET.KIDS DONT TRUST PEOPLE WHEN OLDER PEOPLE ARE CALLING THEM "ABSOLUTTELY DISGUSTING"THAT COMMENT IS THE REASON THEY ARE ALL ON THE INTERNET.COMUNICATION IS KEY FOR US ALL.
First of all, I wasnt talking to you. I was talking to the person who thought that things were oh so ideal in their grandmother's time... I was simply giving them a reality check to what things were really like back then... and by the way, being a woman does not automatically mean you want equal rights... there are a lot of women who think that there are biological difference between men and women (and oh yeah the bible says so too), which means women are just naturally supposed to be subordinate...
Secondly, there are no pre teens on this site talking about sex... pre teens arent allowed on the site and are so deleted... so either you're seeing things, or we must be really blind...
And I know you're 20. But things have changed a lot since you were in high school. Perhaps you missed that... Kids have access to internet a lot more readily than they did even 5 years ago. And they're going to have sex. No matter who talks to them. No matter what they hear. Abstinence only has shown to fail. Perhaps people need to actually come into the real world where teens have sex and there's not much you can do except home school and cut them off from everything and everyone...
oh ,SO BECAUSE YOUR 20 YOU THINK YOUR A GROW UP NOW?YOUR STILL A KID.AND YOU MUST HAVE HAD A BOARING CHILD HOOD.YOUR JUST MAD BECAUSE YOUR GETTING OLD.IM SURE YOU WERE THINKING THE SAME THINGS THEY WERE AT THAT AGE,,,BUT DIDNT HAVE THE COURAGE TO FOLLOW THROUGH.BEING A TEENAGER IS THE FUNNIST TIME OF YOUR LIFE...AFTER 20 ITS ALL OVER.THEN.ITS TIME TO A.C.T. LIKE AN ADULT.IT ISNT FUN SO ,SUCK IT UP,AND STOP WORRYING ABOUT THE NEW GENERATION.YOU SOUND LIKE AN OLD WOMEN ALREADY.TIGHTEN UP.THEY ARE NOT ADULTS,THATS WHY WE CALL THEM JUVENIALS.IM NOT HAPPY ABOUT OUR YOUTHS EITHER,BUT,IT IS WHAT IT IS.THE WORLDS GONE TO SHT.IN TEN YEARS YOU WILL LOOK BACK AND ASK YOUR SELF WHY YOU DID THE THINGS YOU DO TODAY.TRUST ME.IM GLAD MY PARENTS DIDNT DEPRIEVE ME OR CENSOR ME.THATS WHAT MAKES A TRUE AMERICAN.ITS THE LAND OF THE FREE.IF YOU DONT LIKE IT GO TO IRAQ PLEASE.WE NEED ALL THE FREE THINKERS WE CAN GET AT THE MOMENT.I HAVE`NT HAD FUN SINCE HIGH SCHOOL AND THAT WAS A VERY LONG TIME AGO.TEENAGERS GOT IT BAD ENOUGH.LEAVE THE POOR KIDS ALONE.
I'm not exactly an old folk here , I'm only 20 years old . I'm just Overwhelmed by questions being posted , "how do I tell my parents I'm pregnant" at the age of 13 . Half of these 'kid's' grammar is hardly to up to par , how could they be expected to be mature enough to emotionally give themselves away ? And excuse me , I"M A WOMAN why the hell would you ever assume I wouldn't want equal rights ? Put it in perspective , we don't have to choose sexually active pre teens over equal rights . I'm not even saying censorship , I'm MERELY suggesting parents play their part in their children's life & educate them . If the children are actually educated , then there would be a lessened response of std's and teen pregnancies .
ALSO you are taking this far out of context . I'm stating that this is an outrage . I was educated and remained a virgin up until a year ago . So EXCUSE ME for thinking that sexually active pre teens is a little taboo .
OH PUH LEASE. I had a wonderful childhood as a matter of fact. I grew up in a privileged, liberal home. THERE'S A HUGE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN 'CENSORSHIP' AND 'INAPPROPRIATE.' I've never seen a grown man fight so hard for little kids' right to talk about their sex lives. Dare we say it? You're forgetting sir that it is these children who will one day be running our lives when we are incapable to do so. How should I hold on to my youth? Perhaps I'll write in all caps and use poor grammar...maybe then someone will acknowledge my youth. So a true American is a fourteen year girl having an abortion? Or hopped up on drugs? Insert American Anthem Go to Iraq? Could you sound anymore ignorant? I am extremely liberal but I know when and where to be conservative. Don't give me that 'free thinker' mumbo jumbo. It's good to see middle-aged men defending the rights to sexually active PRE-teens...oh wait isn't there a name for that? ;)
Well, like my grandmother recently said, "It seems there's nothing considered private or sacred by society anymore." Sure, statistically it's not changing all that much, but the fact people brag about their sex lives, and share porn magazines, and are sometimes questioning even the most basic right and wrongs(There are some morals that are simply programmed into our instinctual side, generally about killing and stealing) is what is making it worse.
And teen pregnancy is down because of better sex education. Doesn't mean kids still aren't having sex.
And the process of supposedly removing religion from the classroom was something that started in the 60s, if I'm not mistaken. Though replacing it humanism and evolutionism(both which are ideally religions, just one that excludes a higher being), both which are stemmed on unproven theories, is kinda hypocritical in my opinion.
I'm guessing when you were that age there wasnt a computer in every classroom... It's a little hard to monitor what your kid is doing when they're at school. Also, kids will do what they will... Just because things are now more in the open doesnt mean they are worse. If you look at hard core statistics instead of hype, you'll see that the teen pregnancy rate has gone DOWN, it is the lowest it has been in 30 years (so much for your God in schools theory amblessed).
www.guttmacher.org/pubs/2006/09/12/USTPstats.pdf
Yes that was 2 years ago... we delete anyone we find (it's a legal issue...) And I know it is easy to lie...
My point was, just because things are more out in the open now, doesnt make them worse. Just means things arent being hidden any more... I consider that a good thing... It might be shocking how young they are, but that's simply because people refused to acknowledge that this has been going on for centuries... people just refused to admit it...
I TOTALLY AGREE!!! I found this site last week and was TOTALLY OVERWHELMED. Like you I could not and still cannot believe what these kids are talking about here. It blew me away . So where are there parents...a very good question.
I am glad that I am a little older. I thought it was tough but now I wonder. Thanks for speaking out. I concer with you. One really has to wonder about today's youth.
I think equal rights for sex and race were finallized by the 60s.
What is happening is that people have no discretion these days, and it's encouraged. I mean, I'm all speak your mind and say it to their face kinda stuff, but I do it logically and am pretty discreet about it. No point in starting a shouting match in public, making me and the one I have grievances with look like idiots.
I totally agree with you!! I am seventeen (yes I realize I am still young and considered a child) but I am totally blown away but what these little girls are saying!! I mean I am bearly starting to experience some of these things with my boyfriend of one year and they are giving one another instructions!! I totally agree with you. thanks for asking the question that everyone is thinking.
"I think equal rights for sex and race were finallized by the 60s. "
Really? women still dont earn as much as men in the same jobs... Obama finally (yes in 2009) signed an equal pay act... Do I think that discretion is a smart idea, yes... Would I pick discretion over the tonnes of progress that has been made in the last 40 years, not a chance...
I haven't heard about any 11 and 12 year olds having sex. 13+ yeah, fine. I don't think having sex when you are over that age is a bad thing as long as you can trust that person and are in a relationship with them, and make sure you use protection. If they don't; it was their choice... Now THEY have to deal with it.
I suppose you'd like to go back to a time where women stayed at home, minorities didnt have equal rights, and abused women and children had no recourse? There's a price to pay for people having rights... And if that means that delicate sensibilites are trodden upon, I'd take that any day...
I'm not saying pre teens shouldn't have sex , I'm saying it's shocking as to how young they are .
http://www.funadvice.com/q/the_pill it isn't hard to fake your age online my dear .
This is the condition of today's society and it's worsening - my opinion, it all started when we kicked God out of our schools and our lives.
I don`t know what the key to success is,but the key to failure is trying to please everyone.
