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When the cops searched them they all got charged with weed?

I am madly in love with my boyfriend and hes all I think about and he got grounded. Yes he lives with his dad still but not for very long. But him and his brother and a few friends were driving around town when they got pulled over. And the cop searched them and fond weed and my boyfriends dad tripped although he used to do weed himself but he was mad. So now I didnt see him yesterday and today hes gonna ask his dad if I came come over and watch football. But his dad hates me because he thinks im too “young” for his son. Were 3 years apart. And I’ve never felt this way. I cant stop thinking about him its makeing my head hurt I cant stop moveing. I want to hear his voice see his smile. So I dont know what I should do if his dad says no and wont let me see him. What should I do? I need him today. HELPP! Pleasee! :S

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The good news is he won’t be grounded forever so just relax! This is a difficult time for him and his dad so don’t put too much pressure on them. If his dad says no then show your mature enough to understand that this isn’t the right time for visits. Falling inlove is wonderful and all those feelings can make you quite crazy but remember that you’ve got to keep a level head. He needs you to be strong, understanding and not to be demanding and overbearing with your own needs. Put yourself is his position, the cops breathing down his neck, his dad freaking out and then you whining about needing him now, today. To keep you occupied while he’s stuck at home, write him letters, poems, emails or call him. Remember to ask him how he is and offer your help in any way to get him over this rough patch. He’ll be more then grateful when he realizes what a great young lady his got by his side.

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