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When she's fed up with me

My girl found I basically that I flirted with a co worker where we work. Sometimes Im a bonehead. I’ve done some stupid stuff in the past to make her think Im not going to change I know. But shes also very over protective and insecure. She basically doesn’t want me talking 2 any females. I admit I’ve flirted here and there and kept in touch with old friends.But I have NOT cheated on her nor do I want too. Seeing her really hurt by me again has really made me feel so low. I want her trust in me back so bad Im willing to do anything. She says theres nothing to say & that shes moving back with her mother. Iam so desperate right now. The actual sobering thought of her not being in my life has me so sad. I’ve gotta keep her with me. Please Help me.I want her to stay. Again I’d do anything. I really love this woman. I made mistakes but Im ready and wiling to make a change.

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Answer #1

You need to call her…better yet… go see her right now…with a dozen red roses and tell her everything you just told all of us….and then change….its the only way to regain her trust…if she gives you a second chance….which I think she will if you act ASAP!

Answer #2

Well stop flirting with other girls and actually do it! She needs some space right now becos it sucks not knowing whether or not to put your trust in someone when you have been burnt before. You need to respect her decision and give her some space away to work things out, in the meantime the worst thing you can do is flirt or get with other girls becos that just proves you dont really care. Just be there, dont flirt with girls, let her know you’ll wait for her to sort herself out and to call when she is ready becos you are ready for a commitment.

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