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I am very fed up

okay well I have done some things I can honestly say I am not proud of and I am sick and tired of guys wanting me to be there little skank because im not really like that and it drives me pretty insane and I dont know what to say to guys when they ask me to do something I do not want to do and I dont know what to say ot how to say it because I would rather someone else be happy at the expense of my own happiness

what should I do?

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Answer #1

“and I dont know what to say to guys when they ask me to do something I do not want to do”

Hey girl. I’m a guy. If a girl told me she wasn’t ready to do something, or didn’t want to do something - end of discussion. Many guys aren’t like this, and it is with this guys that you have to stand up for yourself. What do you say when a guy asks you do do something you don’t want to do? “NO”.

“and I dont know what to say ot how to say it because I would rather someone else be happy at the expense of my own happiness”

Why would you rather someone else be happy than you? It sounds like you don’t think you deserve to be happy. But you do, more than those douchebags who treat you like a doll. Never put your happiness below your peers.

Sometimes sacrifices have to be made.

This is not one of those cases.

Just, “No, I don’t do that”. “No, I’m not like that”. “No, you’re an asshole”.

Answer #2

youve probly built up a rep for being like that so thats why they come to you. you have to show that your not like that try to get into a relationship if you can instead of just getting with random guys. and if you dont want to do anything just say no if they force you then you hit them in the balls

Answer #3

tell them to f*ck off, respect yourself. they can find someone else 2 do their dirty deeds. you shudn’t give away your happiness for some random guy, forget them, find a good one and stick with him:)

Answer #4

explain in a nice way how you feel, and if they have the smallest problem with it,then ignore it! dont throw away your pride for other people who will waste your love. youll end up feeling empty like me. take my word on it

Answer #5

never do something you don’t want to do, just because someone else asks you to.

thats the bottom line.

NEVER.

otherwise it will be your biggest regret and you’ll get a trashy reputation if you just go around giving out free sexual favours to guys that ask and recieve straight away.

respect yourself don’t lower your standards, you better than that.

Answer #6

I am so sorry that people take advantage of you just say no and mean it no matter what they say and after a while they will move on to bother some one else and you will be old news. wanting to make people happy is a good thing but its never good if it costs you your happiness I hope you find someone who respects you and doesnt try to take advantage of you

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