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When its time to lose my virginity and im 14 should he be 17?

Im only 14 and I have dis 17 yr old best friend and we been talking about sex a lot and having it with each other but sum where deep inside meh im not only scared but feel he to old what should I do and and top of that I hear it hurts like hell!

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Answer #1

You are scared, your obviously not ready yet. Do not rush it, you will have your whole life ahead of you to do it. You are only 3years apart, I don’t think it is a big deal. For some girls it may hurt more then others, the hornier/wetter you are the less it will hurt, your vagina will stretch. But I think you should wait until you are ready for it.

Answer #2

DONT RUSH INTO IT…WAIT FOR SOMEONE YOU LOVE…HE MIGHT SAY HE IS YOUR BESTFRIEND…BUT TRUST ME AFTER HE WILL BRAG ABOUT IT TO HIS FRIENDS SO DONT PUT YOURSELF IN THAT SITUATION

Answer #3

It might hurt for a few seconds but after that the pain turns into extreme pleasure. If your not comfortable having intercourse with him then don’t. I would recommend waiting until you are 18, but the choice is yours.

Answer #4

im 19 & still a virginn so theres no right timee to loose itt.. only when yu feel readdyy & feel is what you really want .. but I believe if yur not going to wait to get marriedd & plan to loose it before do it with someone who is worth it & most importantly out of love..

not just to knoe what its like because most of the time you would regret it & wish you should of waited atleast for that special perosn who deservedd giving it too :)

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