When does someone fully get over an ex?

This came up with me and my friends about a year ago. We were talking about how can we best forget someone… how can we let someone go… and my solution at that moment seemed so simple.

I told them that when you break up with anyone… you tend to only remember the good part, the good times… all the fun things you did together.. the nice memories… and remembering this will make you depressed as you will question your judgment then.. you will ask why did you break up with him, where did it all went wrong and more whys..

When that happens never just remember the good part of your relationship.. try to remember the bad part… the part where everything went wrong.. all the hurt that you got courtesy of the relationship… the part where bad thing happens as if on a collision course…

That’s how you forget people, that’s how you recover from them. Seed a little hatred and let it remind you of all that.. never too much hatred mind you for it will make you an ugly person. Whenever I miss them, and sort of want em back, I always remember the hurt they gave me. at least I feel stronger.. empowered to control my own life.