When boyfriend wants to finger me,should I be nervous ?

Im really really nervous, my boyfriend says he wants to finger me, bu ti wouldnt no what to do, should I shave, and how? And should I moan, but I mainly want to do it because all my friends have .. Help? Thanks xx

Answer #1

You definently shouldn’t do just bcos all of your friends have. If your gonna get fingered, you want to enjoy it as much as possible, and a way to do that would be waiting until you feel so comfortable and secure with a guy that you want him to be the Only one to get that close to you emotionally and physically.

Anyway, if your going to do it, you guys will probably be making out while he’s doing it, but if not, run your fingers through his hair and stroke the sides of his face, tell him how good it feels and do not be afraid to direct him on what to do. Moan also. And as far as shaving, shave the top and sides of your pubic hair, then trim down the rest so that the hairs are short and neat. Just a warning: shaving and trimming down there for the first time will make you irritated and itchy. If you do not shave or trim, your guy probably won’t think any less of you at all, might not even take notice, especially if it’s his first time too. Remember to think about the desicion your making here. Good luck xx

Answer #2

when he does, dont try and hold it in, let it out. the moaning turns your boyfriend on. But like people have said before, dont be a sheep and go following your mates around, only do what you feel comfortable with, you dont want to be regretting anything thats to late to take back. And yes.guide him, tell him what to do and where to go. he may not show it, but I bet he is just as nervous as you are, he will be wanting to show you a good time. Just one thing I can say, dont let him go straight in, he needs to make you wet first or it will hurt. the wetter the better. lol. and something I learnt from a recent experiance… if you dont want to actually touch his dick. then slide your hand slowly up his leg and towards his balls. my boyfriend said it felt really good. lol. or you could always just rub it throo his boxers? Theres nothing to worry about. Have fun xx

Answer #3

Yes, shave but not all gone because that pubic hair protects bacteria from getting into your vagina. Just make sure you are clean and make sure his hands are clean because it can cause germs to get inside you as well. Don’t be nervous just get into it and you will really enjoy yourself.

Answer #4

Moan if it makes you moan:) being fingered feels great to some people, I like it, it makes me moan, don;t hold back either if theres something you want go for it:) Just don;t do anything just cause all your friends are doing it, you’d be surprised how many of them are just saying they did it.

Answer #5

Hey hun. Okay yeah if you usally moan 4 different stuff then moaan once or twice 4 this. Yes most guys like it completely shaved. and no you shuldnt be nervous at all it doesnt hurt I promise.

Xoxobyebye

Answer #6

are you really sure you want him to finger you ?dont do it because your friends have. you must really want to do it to be able to relaxe. you dont have to shave it is a matter of choice it wont stop him from fingering you. the 1st time you should go easy ask him not to be to rough with you. you can take his hand to guide him to the spot , if you feel like it you can play with his penis while he is fingering you that way the both of you will be pleasing each other. be sure you want to do it , relax & enjoy it. toni

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