whats the line

me and my girlfriend are 14 and have been going out for ‘bout 5 months and are making out and all but she is really scared of doing something then getting in trouble. half the problem is that she wont really talk to me about anything. forget all about my previous question/statement and give me this- when should I stop? the furthest I gone was grab her butt and I know she wants more and I want to give her more. I also want to ask her about her sexual fantasies, how can I do that in kind of a nonchalant way that she wont really be afraid to answer? is it possible?

Answer #1

wowww… I.. really never thought about myself like that. I kind of… I feel so dirty now! I cant believe myself, thoughts so biased by my own desire, wasnt thinking about us as friends in stead of as a couple that just makes out because it is /right/. wrong.

Answer #2

don’t feel dirty. guys at your age are normal that way. speaking from the point of view of an 18-year-old guy, I know, believe me. it’s totally natural, but you DO have to try and control yourself sometimes. but like I said before, ask her what she’s comfortable with BEFORE you try anything new. this seems to make the girl more comfortable. about talking about the fantasies, just ask if she’s ever had any great dreams. most girls sometimes dream about being with a guy that way.

Answer #3

the furthest I gone was grab her butt>>That is kind of a disrespectful thing to do. I know she wants more>>How do you know she wants more when you just said > she wont really talk to me about anything>> Your only 14. Relationships arent all about getting a$$. Why dont you spend quality time just getting to know her on a social level, instead of trying to figure out a way to get her to give you what YOU want.

Answer #4

um wait till your older or she will be afraid or regret what she says but I would not want to be asked that.

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