Okay this morning I woke up like normal. My boyfriend and I have had sex maybe twice since we lost our virgntys to each other. Well I found out I was pregnant today. I am 20. And my boyfriend is 25. He was super excited when I told him he was so happy. He was kissing and hugging me. And we plan on getting married. And do on. He is the sweetest man out there. But what would you do if you had a boyfriend like this? I mean I love him and I wouldnt trade him for anything. I love him more than life or air. So he is insicure about his d!ck and body. From his parents making fun of him and even when he came to them for help. And girls saying this d!ck size was too small and he has lots of problems dealing with that, but I mean I dont care about his D!ck or body. I love him 4 him. And he was emo at one time so he has all his emotional problems and yea,also he was cheated on twice so he has jelousy issues and he is scared im gonna cheat or break up with him becauwse of his body or d!ck which I wont. But he dont understand im different then them. I really do love him! How can I make him feel better about himself? And show him more love?
sit him down, and tell him. tell him exactly how you feel, how much you love him, and that you know hes a bit insecure but you will never leave him. if you really do love him so much, and he really loves you, then you'll have a great family with the baby.
maybe he should get a little bit of counseling though. if you don't want to tell him to get counseling just in case it hurts his feelings, you could book some parenthood sessions for you both before the baby is born and that might help him with all his other stuff- that way, he won't feel like you think he has something wrong with him. Best of luck, he sounds like a great guy. x
The best thing to have in a relationship is communication. As long as you two can discuss any and all issues, no matter what, you'll have it made. Whenever you communicate, it re-affirms everything you have for each other including love. In fact it makes love stronger. So, if you and he can talk,( not fight ), about things you''ll be fine, and his insecurity will eventually go away. Congrats and lots of luck/love with the baby.
Thanks you guys! Yea we dont have any problems talking unless we talk about something that bothers him a lot, then he gets sad. And teary and his voice gets lower and then eventualy I make him laugh. Yea I think we will go for parents sessions. He is a great guy though if there is anything wrong with me he comforts me and does whatever I say. he told me he was insicure he trust me a lot he says
ummm I think havinthe babywill help out wit this problem if you guys have been together for 7 years obviously you love him you shud point that out to him just keep letting him know your not going to thts pretty much all I can come up with and congrats on the baby I love kids and babies lol
Just keep doing what you have been doing. Stick by him and communicate as much as possible.
Well tell me what I should do!
Sounds to me you'll be fine.
