What would tutor do?

Hi, You will give me an honest answer, I live in the uk. As you may know? I had feelings for my mentor and Still do ( an on going problem ) , and then with This other person aswell , it just makes me feel sad At times and dont no how to deal with it,, cut a long Story short … If I told my tutor at college all That wud he involve my mum ??? X

Answer #1

How old are you?

He could involve you parents, because he could lose his job if it even LOOKS like he is involved with you. Rather don’t tell him. Wait till you are finished studying and then tell him. Then you can’t destroy his career.

Answer #2

she’ll be 16+

its not socially exceptable for teachers and students to be together as he could lose his job…

dont jeopardize his career by telling him you have feelings for him… I guarantee these feelings will pass…

Answer #3

well they keep on talking about the 1 guy. well I’m gonna talk about both. Well you like 2 people right? well think about which 1 you’re closer to in a best-friend-way. think of who you’ve known the longest and think about how you started to like them, like did you just relize it or did it grow over time? well I’m not gonna tell you what happens when you answer the questions. I’m just gonna let you figure that out yourself. ;)

Answer #4

Look, there’s two things that could happen. If he’s a good guy, he wont get involved with you because it isnt right. It would be like you dating a 12 year old. And by telling him or having it out there, you would jeopardize his job. If you really cared about him, you wouldnt put him in that position. Now, if he’s not a good guy, he could decide to get involved with you. And you dont want to be with a person like that. Believe me, when you get older you will understand why it is not ok to be dating someone who is trusting and relying on you and there’s a power difference in your relationship. Once you’re older and he’s no longer your tutor, then if your feelings havent changed, you can say something.

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