What to do about a love triangle ?

I’m in the exact same position as your boyfriend would be in this. My on/off girl friend loves me and her best friend. And I can tell you now, if your boyfriend finds out… let’s just say I hope he doesn’t. It’s the worst pain you can imagine. Knowing and living in hopes that one day she will/you will make the decision you want.

You need to figure out WHO you truly want to be with. Don’t lead your boyfriend on if you don’t really wanna be with him. It’s unfair on him. And do it ASAP. Don’t think that you can keep this going because it tears everyone apart and it will eventually tear you apart, more than you know. My girlfriend is so torn and hurts everyday because she left it too long and has fallen more in love with me and just doesn’t know what to do now, leaving me and her best friend in pain every day.

So I really do urge you to truly think about what you want and who you want. BEcause what you’re doing is NOT going to turn out well if you keep ignoring it or keep it going.

good luck