What the hell do I do!!

now I smoke weed and I have a job too. but I know what you mean my bros are the same way and eventhough I work I still try and do everything I can to help. I agree wit freshmrcurly just be a d!ck to your bro and find a way to make him do something cause I know how it feels to have your mom b!tch at you for somethin you cant really help wit

haha threaten him!? hes 21 an a big lad (not fat muscly) if I thretend him id get a smak! hes not a$$ed at all!! so that goes out of the window, what eva I say 2 him he laffs in my face, he doesnt care

u need to just calm down and take slow. first start by kicking your bro outta bed…make him clean and threaten him if he doesnt…also make him get a job and tell him he’s gotta have a life…mayb hook him up w/ someone…(if they want a lazy boyfriend, lol, joke)

be a dick to your bro. when he wont wake up just throw a water balloon at him. take away his xbox and lock it in yur room till he helps. treat him like a lil kid. im also a stoner so I know that if people start treatin you like a lil kid ull do all you can to stop it. even if that means giving in. as for your mom I wood first sit down and have a nice talk with her. maybe take the anger out of your question and read it to her. if she doesnt understand or takes it the rong way then just blow up in her face. make her feel intimidated.

Have a serious talk with your mom. She is going to have to force your brother into a job or out of the house. Let her know in a respectful way that you don’t appreciate the double standard, and you feel you contribute to the household in the following ways… (list ways) Then ask what she would like you to do instead. It will force her to think about how she is treating you, and confront the fact that she is enabling your brother’s atrocious behavior.