What should I say to my boyfriend and parents about being pregnant?

I am so sorry for your situation… First of all, it’s your and only YOUR decision as to whether or not to keep your baby… don’t let anyone try to talk you into anything you don’t want to do. You can go to talk to your school guidance counselor first and she/he can tell you how to approach your parents. My son became a dad at age 16 and the baby’s mom was 15. Myself and my family all pitched in to help. The baby’s mom had the baby with her in her dad’s house and would just leave the baby with him all day. So my son and I filed for custody and won. My son continued to go to school. Social services helped us get day care at a great cost because I work. My granddaughter is now age 7 and my son is 23. He recently moved in with his new girlfriend and his daughter is with him now. I’m sure your parents will understand and help you out. It’s very IMPORTANT that you stay in school. I don’t know if both your parents work or not, but they should be able to help you out. Your boyfriends parents should also be there for you. Also, do not let them talk you into getting married, you are just too young. I pray for you and your baby.. please let me know what you decide to do. Thanks, and good luck

You are a grade A student and so is your boyfriend? Wow your child could be very intelligent.

I think writing a letter to your parents would be the worst option if it were me! You would be in your room walking in circles going omg have they read it have they read it! lol! I think you should tell your boyfriend first, and the both of you should decide as a family what to do. thats what you are now, family. you have created a huan being that will link you both for the rest of your lives. You should tell all your parents together. That way there is less chance of anger as your boyfriend’s parents are in the room too and vice versa.

If you have the child, You can still go to university when you are older. Don’t think that you are throwing your life away. Yes, it will be a big setback, But I know a girl who had twins at 16 and she is now training to be something to do with bio chemistry or something. The children sometimes go to daycare, sometimes to her mum and dad, and sometimes to the father’s mum and dad, and sometimes to the father. Shes lucky, her family were really good about it.

Don’t think you have to get married or anything, you don’t. But it would be beneficial to keep the father around to help.

Best of luck :) xx

Talk to your boyfriend. Be honest. dont be afraid.

You’ll have to tell someones parents if you get an abortion. because your a minor.

*Abortion Is NOT murder. the baby/fetus cannot be aborted after 3 months because the baby can feel pain.

You need to do whats best for YOU. if you cannot find the will to have an abortion it does not mean your stupid. it means you are doing whats best for your mental health.

remember this; Your Body. Your Uterus. Your Mind.

your boyfriend and family? if they really love you they will be angry and might be hurt but I’m sure they really love you and want the best. The best for you is best for the baby.

do what you think is right…

on telling your parents:

if you cant tell them to they’re faces, write a letter. leave it on the dresser, in the mailbox. find a way your comfortable with and tell them.

the sooner you tell them the more support you’ll get.

• victoria.

and please let me know how your doing with it! -victoriadawn.justice@ymail.com

Say proud and fearless, in what you are about to become “I am going to be a mother” to your boyfriend and your parents, the contraceptive pill is the work of wickedness to encourage the practice of intercourse without offspring, and it has been surpassed, the problem is maybe you should have chosen a better father

you should tell your parents before they find out them selves b/c that could be worse just be honest with them

just tell your parents they will understand if they want you to give it up for adoption say that will hurt you to much and try to convince them like with abortion with your boy friend try to convince him that that will upset you and just try to like it if he walks out just let him he has to help it’s his baby

to your boyfrien say… the last time we had sex.. it was unprteced and I took a test and im pregnant…* its simple for the boy but your parents is the hard part…im 17 and have a 2 year old bby girl so I no how you feel and yes it was a mistake but I would never take her back or give her away… if you think you are too young or immiture or just simply still want your life normal ABORTION is not a option I hope.. look for a good family and put your bby up for adoption if thats te case but if not convince your mom that you will take care of it and wil put it first I mean its your parents houe so its tech. up to them but just tell them you need to talk.. then say mom dad I really messed up and I no I mad the worst mistake but im pregnant… then I think theyll take it from thare…

hope this helps

I would straight up say to my parents “I messed up, & I need a lot of help!” See what they say. & I guess explain to them what happened. I would prefer to tell my mom first so your not that comfortable in front of your dad. but yeah I would tell your mom first and then ask her how to tell your boyfriend. I give you the best of luck & I hope everything works out