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What should I do? Please help! Love sick!

I’ve fallen in love with my best friend. I’ve dated other guys but I’ve never felt like this before. I told him I like him and he says he likes me but nothing has happened. I’m scared to ask him out in case I get rejected and then I don’t know how I could cope! We text like 4 times a day, but recently he hasn’t answered any of my texts. When I asked him about it, he just said nothing. He’s on cotract and gets unlimited texts, so it couldn’t be is credit. I know I sound annoying but we’ve known each other for 12 years! I never asked to fall in love with him but now I’m scared because the feelings getting stronger and I can’t stop thinking about him.I don’t know what to do. Please help!

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Answer #1

well I fell in love with one of my really close guy friends. it’s hard sometimes but we continuesly tell each other that no matter what happens we will stay friends. it took like 7 months for us to finally admit that we were crazy about each other but now we are hard to keep apart. it will be hard to ever go a day without him but I wouldn’t trade any of it . we have so much fun and it is just so amazinh how he makes me feel. sometimes, you have to take a chance. maybe your friend is having to decide if he is willing to risk his friendship with you. maybe you should talk to him for a while… whatever you decide, good luck(:

Answer #2

Its been 22 days, and your still in the same boat now as you were then. he likes me but nothing has happened.>> If he hasnt asked you to be his girlfriend by now, then its obvious that he only sees you as a friend, not girlfriend material.

we’ve known each other for 12 years!>>a lot of times when you’ve been friends with someone for that long, nothing more ever develops other than a friendship. The fact that he recently hasnt answered your texts, you asking him about it, and he said nothing pretty much is an indication he doesnt like you in the way you want him to. If he doesnt want anything more than a friendship from you, then you are going to have to deal with it, and you cant possibly be friends when you feel the way you do about him. Opposite sex friendships can only happen if there are NO feelings involved!

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