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What should I do if my girlfriends a baby but were to young?

Ok so we are 17 and 18 and my girlfriends wants a baby and the thing about it is that I do and I dont want one I mean I like kids but jjust that I think its because im scared of my perents but at time it like there wait for something like this to happen and then I want one because when im at a store or at the mall I just to have the feeling of holding your chiled in you hands and just looking at it for a while but when I think I think in a long rin of how is it going to work because I dont work and I dont like to rely on my perents for money and at the sametime I dont know were im going to have to deal with it and then if it does happen I am worred about my girlfriends perents as well so not so much as mine more of hers because she has to be with them unless she lives with me then its a different story but please help…

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Answer #1

you are right in thinking you’re not ready. you should at least be strongly employed to even consider the expenses of a 5th of a lifetime’s worth of raising a child. If you had a kid now things would more than likely go very poorly for you. She needs to understand this and not pressure you. If you really love each other, then make a commitment to wait until you can actually take care of a child and raise it properly. And despite all the rumors and myths, most varieties of birth control are reliable. Unless you are part of the .01% who experience a mysterious condom failure =D

Answer #2

dude your psyching your self out for nothing tell her you are not prepared for a baby and maybe in a few years you can have one dont rely only on your parents get a juob and relax dude its not like the worlds gonna end if you dont give your girlfriend what she requests then again I dont know her and you might end up hurt or beaten nevere mind but good luck

Answer #3

Look tell her point blank you are not ready. A baby is a big responsibility and at this age you are not even sure if you will be with her forever and a baby needs a two parent home. Don’t ruin your life because she wants to make you a grow up faster then you have 2. trust stay young as long as you can.

Answer #4

you are thinking of having a baby before even getting married you do no that if she leaves you you cant really have custoty of the kid if you are in college are school you can say not untill I have a steady job to pay and raise the kid and if she isnt ready for commitment then how does she want a kid

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