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My boyfriend is the greatest guy I could ever ask for. After leaving an abusive relationships and was so blessed to meet the man I'm with now. We do not use protection and use the "withdrawl" method for pregnancy protection. It has worked for a year and a half so far. I know from a previous relationship that I can get pregnant. My boyfriend has expressed that he wants to have a baby. I am not sure I am ready. I have a good job and he owns a business. Financially we can afford them. However, I have never planned to have a baby until I was married and settled in a home I plan to stay in. We live in an apartment and we are not ready to get married after only a little over a year and a half. What should I do?
We do not use protection and use the withdrawl method for pregnancy protection.
Withdrawl method is not a form of birth control.
If you don't know what to do then it means you aren't ready for children. Tell your boyfriend you don't want any kids at the moment. If he gets angry, leave him.
We do not use protection and use the withdrawl method for pregnancy protection.
...that ISN'T protection... that is ignorance...
I am not sure I am ready.
If you aren't sure, that means you ARE NOT READY.
