What should I do, have sex with my girlfriend?

We have been going out for almost a year are both 14. She wants it but I’m not sure I do any help. I would use protection if we do.

Answer #1

Oh don’t use two condoms because that makes them more likely to break!. And Always use lube with a condom it makes them less likely to break but always use water-based lube.

Answer #2

If you don’t think you are ready, then DON’T DO IT BC YOU ARENT! Like the guy above me said, do you really want the responsibility of a child at 14? Just wait. Honestly, what will it hurt to wait a few years?

Answer #3

Look, if you question it and are scared of it… then it’ll probably be bad the first time therefore increasing your discomfort of it.

If y’all dated for a year and she was fine, then she should be willing to wait longer… Sex is a huge step and it is only affective if both parties are comfortable with it

Plus… you’re young. Don’t feel like you have to do it. It takes a strong man to say no.

Answer #4

Damn I’m 14 and I dont want sex cause think of the responseabily of having a child to young if the condom breaks!DONT DO IT!

Answer #5

you should both, ESPECIALLY her LEARN about sex before you go off having it learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens get pregnant and/or get stds is because of a lack of sex education

Answer #6

Thanx for the advice, but we already know about STDs STIs pregnancy and all other risks, plus we would use condoms (2 extacy cause I heard they break). I just am wondering why she would still want sex?

Answer #7

Thankyou

Answer #8

Okay If you don’t feel ready and I mean like really ready then don’t do it.

But you and your girlfriend should read this link that I am going to give you. Link: http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/

Answer #9

dont do it your only 14 your way 2 young

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