what should I do at 16?

hi I’m Kenzie and I’m 16. my boyfriend is amazing and he’s 24. yea I know age…but still, I am having small cramps, peeing more, small and sharp abdominal cramps, swollen feet, and back pain. now I have a slight case of pscholiosis but it only hurts in my lower back if it does hurt, but now it’s going into my upper back and shoulders and my lower as well. I haven’t talked to my parents or my boyfriend. I’m getting worried!! I sometimes have nausious feelings and I crave things a lot. I am eating more and more each day. my pants are even getting a tad bit tighter and I keep getting tired and I get tired fast when walking I also get random hotflashes. I don’t know if I should tell Jeremy or my parents. I’m scared to know what would happen between Jeremy and I. do you think I could be pregnant? we don’t use condoms or birth control anytime we have sex…stupid I know! but I’m scared. what should I do and how should I tell Jeremy or my parents??? HELP!! PLEASE!!!

Answer #1

I know what you are going through so you can message me for furthur advice. However, basically you need to come out and tell your parents and your boyfriend. Also, you need to take a pregnancy test. If you are pregnant whether you keep it, put it up for adoption, or abort it then your boyfriend could go to jail for rape.

Answer #2

you can obviously be pregnant if you dont use any protection which is one reason why you shouldnt be having sex because you have no sex education also im pretty sure its illegal to have sex with someone that age, at your age so he could be charged with rape if people find out now for some sex education

if you’ve had sex (wether it was protected or not) you could be pregnant yes you can get pregnant at any time of the month at any time you have sex no form of birth control or contraception is 100% effective at preventing pregnancy either but it obviously lowers the chance if you use it so any time you have sex there’s a chance of pregnancy since youve been having regular unprotected sex theres a very HIGH chance that your pregnant

to find out if your pregnant take a pregnancy test about 2 weeks after you had sex (any sooner and the results won’t be accurate) in the morning with your first pee is the best time and take it when your period is due alternatively, see a doctor for a blood test this will both let you find out quicker and give you more accurate results

and remember to LEARN about sex before you go off having it learn about as well as a male and female reproductive system birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds don’t have sex until you know the consequences involved with it because the main reason why kids and teens get pregnant and/or get stds is because of a lack of sex education

Answer #3

Wow, your probably pregnant! get a test asap! then you can decide whether to keep, abort if its early enough, or maybe give up for adoption later.

Answer #4

well I think you should talk to your boyfriend first and ya should go to the doctor to see wats going on and if you turn out to be pregnant then talk to your parents

Answer #5

well I dont think your boyfriend will be shocked when you tell him if your not using birth control then he obviousley knows what may happen, count from your last period if its 3wks overdue then you could be but if your gettin syptoms you dont normally get those till 3wks after your last period just take a test! xxx

Answer #6

I would take a pregnancy test personally but that is because I know exactly what you are going thru im here if you need to talk

Answer #7

first off you just described like 3 different stages of pregnancy morning sickness is an earlier stage back pains and swollen feet and getting tired are mid stages(by the middle stages you should already become some what bigger and begin to show,its basically a dead give awayand cravings are later stages so the thing is I dont think your pregnant and I also think your faking(I don’t know tho cause people like to make up a lot of stories) so if you still think you are just take a test but im pretty sure your not

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