What should I do about a threesome decision?

(im a girl) and me and my best friend have always joked about having a threesome. Now my boyfriend started to say how we should have a threesome. I mean, its every guys fantasy. My friend is totaly down and obviously so is my boyfriend. I am kinda into it but Im scared it will break up our relationship. I dont know if I can see him with her evern if im included, but then again I sorta want to do it! help with my decision!

Answer #1

You only live once so go ahead and do it. Only thing you may have to worry about his him wanting to do it all the time.

Have fun

Answer #2

me and my guy made up rules

  1. im the only one who can touch the other chick
  2. I cant kiss the other chick

for us kissing is our thing so its a no-no lol and tell the chick your rules and tell her she better follow them or pretty much you wont trust her.

I don’t know thats my opinion.

funmail me

Answer #3

DON’T DO IT! I did it,and it tore me and my friend up. And my boyfriend was getting out of control with her, I now don’t trust him as much as I did. You will get hurt watching them together, even if your included. Or jealous. Bad feeling happen in a threesome, well with me it did.

Answer #4

just do what ever your heary tell you to do and if its to go with it then do doit hope you have funn and hope thisa was usfull xx

Answer #5

It comes down to the trust of you and you friend, as long as you know you friend wouldn’t try to hook up with your guy outside of the threesome, and you know that your guy wouldn’t cheat on you, then why not? They’re totally fun and really open up parts of your relationships. Establish some ground rules if you need to before hand (Like they aren’t allowed to make out or something like that)

Answer #6

Well when I have threesomes I always set ground rules, like my boyfriend can’t kiss the girl on her lips, or vise versa, he can’t focus solely on her, and I personally don’t put my friends in the equation, because it might make things a little akward for us. I say go for it though, just make sure you have ground rules, and make sure they understand that if at ANY point if you feel uncomfortable you can stop it and they HAVE to stop

Answer #7

threesomes rock… and its not really every guys fantasy… not mine… I have a different one… im still young so I might wanna be a porn star to fullfill them all :P … nn everyone is a perv so its ok if you wanna be in the 3some…

if I were a girl id probably be a lesbo… but in your case I think you should get the 3 some but wit another guy ann then do the 3some wit another girl… in order to be fair I mean(offer that but I dont think hell want to but its a good way to post pone the 3 if you dont wanna )… because it wont really be fullfilling you fantasies if you jss do it wit some other girl now would it??? unless your like bisexual. which is hot :P also the easiest way to have a 3some for a guy is too have some bisexual girls that want you :P

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