What should be my next move (the pen approach)?

What about “the pen” approach? So, I really needed a pen…well not really. There was this cuuute guy that I saw a couple of times on the bus. I was in the library and I waited 5mins before walking up to him, my heart was pounding. I said “excuse me, do you have a pen that I can use?” he looked through his bag so fast, he looked like he was going to fall inside! “yes! Oh yes!”…he had such a soft voice!

I told him thank you and quickly walked back to my seat.

Anyways, I was done using it and his friend comes over and talks to him for like 200hrs, I was so mad because I wanted to start a small convo with the guy. So I went back up to him and said thank you agian. And he asked me if I wanted to have one (I was thinking nooo, but I’ll have you! Lol!) I said no, quickly and nervously because his friend was sitting right there. His friend said something like ‘whos that’…but it was really low and I didnt want to hear anything bad being said.

I left the library and every guy was looking at me, lol. If they’d approach me I wouldnt have to do that :-p

Should I have gotten a pen from him and should I go back up to him agian? I cant help it, guys that I really want to talk to me dont ever come up to me…lol. Sooo, I guess im going to have to be the hunter (smh)

Answer #1

he probably doesnt even know you like him guys dont really like or understand the games girls play so to you asking for his pen was probably your way of trying to flirt but to him he just thinks you want his pen if you want him to notice you, you have to be direct and tell him what you want, exactly what you want (aka not his pen again, lol) otherwise someone else could ask him out and before you know it hes taken guys like girls who are direct

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