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What should be done in my situation?
I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years (which I still love deeply) in January. We broke up because I got fed up with the way he treated me. I pushed him away for 3 months and he would call and send flowers and I wouldn’t respond. I regret that so bad. It’s not easy to let go of someone you were with for 2 years and that you still love. Now I am trying to talk to him. At first he would say I love you (the first few days we spoke) and now he isn’t saying it, also he says he with this girl but first denied it all that he was with someone else. What should I do? Should I just keep waiting for him? Why do you believe he is doing this? Revenge? Hate? Or do you think he still loves me but he just feels hurt? Whats your opinion? (I send letters everyday to him telling him how much I miss him and love him) Thank you in advance. =]]
Well seems like he treated you poorly to begin with, you left him, he realized what he was missing decided to change only til he got you back!
Now that has you back, he can go back to treating you like he did to begin with!
My best advice to you is as follows…
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have a real heart to heart with him, one on one face to face no letters, no phone no emails…make sure he understands what you mean & that you refuse to be in a relationship like this treated like some sort of possession.
Stand your ground girl, tell him like it is…Either you are with me & if so then prove it… or leave me the hell alone! - who the hell is this girl you refereed to when he said he was with that girl! if he is playing around stringing you along while with other girls you seriously need to consider that its over, been over & can never be again! he is disloyal & will continue this behavior in the future. Ask yourself do you really want to be with a guy that will treat you this way or would you rather be with someone else that will treat you like a queen!?
Personally that is why I never go back on sloppy seconds! If it didnt work the first time, obviously there is a reason for you breaking up with him in the first place!
As for revenge or hate, girl if you are already dont trust him as far as how he feels about you…that is your answer for moving on! Trust is the number one thing in a healthy relationship…no trust relationship dead & over!
hope this helped, good luck!
You already broke up with the guy because he treated you like rubbish, whatever you do after reading this dont try to defend him there are a lot of amazing great kind guys, I know its hard after being with someone for 2 years but thats what your missing, a connection with someone, mobve on and find someone knew who I promise you will make you feel the same way again ;)
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